Lower the Flag in Honor of Boston Marathon Bombing Victims

Massachusetts-statehouse-half-mast-flagAs I drive around the city I’m seeing lots of flags that remain at full staff.

Please share this post or let people know who own flags that the Massachusetts Governor Patrick has declared that all flags at least in our state be lowered to half mast.

After the April 15th bombing at the Boston Marathon I can’t help but feel it bring back a lot of feeling about the effects of Sept 11th, my friend Ray Rocha who died in the World trade center and eventually capturing Osama Bin Laden last year.

Please Lower your flags to half mast in respect of the victims of the Boston Marathon bombing.

Please be advised that Governor Deval L. Patrick and Police Chief Ed Davis has ordered that the United States flag and the Commonwealth flag be lowered to half-staff at all state buildings immediately and until further notice in honor of the victims of the acts of violence perpetrated in Boston on Monday, April 15, 2013.

This gubernatorial order applies to:

1. The main or administration building of each public institution of the Commonwealth, e.g. town and city halls

2. Other state-owned or state-controlled buildings

3. All state military installations

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My Success With PR, Online Marketing and Starting a Business

20130319-000206.jpgI’m often asked what I do for work and why am I out bike riding during the day or at the park with my son during his summer vacation. Many times I tell people I’m just unemployed and that satisfies them but really I have a few projects in place that make me decent money with very little to no “work” at all. So this is a post I’ve had in my head for about a year and I’m finally getting to writing.

Summer of 2010 I was laid off from a job where I was the online marketing manager for a great company called Metalogix. I was hired 2 years early at the start of the company. 2 of the founders of the company brought me in to improve the companies online presence and getting them selling more software. Great job and great people.

But after 2 years the industry changed a bit and so did the economy. Board of directors wanted to do things cheaper and cut expenses and go into different marketing channels. So I was laid off with a few other key people as well. I kept in contact with a few coworkers but oh well life moves on.

Time to look for the next project.

I decided to try the local marketing/web developer consulting gig lifestyle. Little did I know it was waaaaay more work and less pay. So much for the easy comfortable corporate days of salary and benefits. I now had to work even harder on my own to find clients and then report and give them what they expected on a timely basis. I got in a little over my head at the start and quickly started to fall behind on deadlines. Sorry Chris, Ivan and Chuck.

After fulfilling my obligations I once again decided I had to make a change where I’m not dependent on someone else or another company to make a living but truly go out on my own and make my own path in life. I was going to be an entrepreneur.

I kind of knew what the word meant but really had no idea what it was to be an entrepreneur.

I’m proud of what I’ve accomplished and I want to have a little list or story about what I’ve done in this last year. I want to share real ideas, stories and numbers of what I did and a little on how I did it. Take it as bragging or take it as a big lie. Whateva!!! It’s my blog and you’re reading it so far so there’s got to be some interest so far.

3+ years ago I was at a point in my marriage where my wife cheated on me and told me she no longer loved me and I didn’t know what to do. I found a few resources online where people told their stories of failed or failing marriages but they were more like whiney stories that were just a place for them to vent and leave. After talking to a shrink and some good friends I was still mad.

I wanted to start an online resource where I expose how people were using Facebook and social media website to cheat and engage in infidelity. I wanted to talk about how I used technology and gadgets to catch my wife and share it with other people who were going through a similar situation like me. It hurts and I had a lot of passion about it. After writing up a whole lot of posts and articles on the site I started getting people commenting and telling their stories and asking for advice.

A light went off in my head and I started to pitch other websites to mention me and my articles so it would help their audiences as well. Soon after that I started email newspapers and radio stations saying that Facebook is so popular and after a few studies came out in the mainstreeam media about Facebook being mentioned in lots of divorces lately it would be a great idea for their readership or listeners to interview me and have me talk about my story.

After a few radio live interviews and a newspaper quote I started getting small magazines and then larger magazine like US magazine and eventually Vanity Fair. Those turned into the front page article on CNN.com and that in turn got me on the Larry King Live TV show, The View and ABC News and even a social media documentary. Lots of viewers to the website and lots more subscribers and commenters. Time for the payoff. Now how do I monetize all that?

The first thing I did was mention the gadgets I used and linked to an affilaite program that sold them. Next I tested out selling someone’s ebook on marriage and relationship counseling but took that down as it wasnt all that great. Finally I turned to Google Adsense and monetized each page of the site with contexual ads. The site was making between $50 and $400/day depending on the traffic and what direct ads were being placed on the site as it got mentioned on more and more media outlets.

So I decided to do less press about the site and focus more on my experiences and how I can reach a larger audience both online and offline. I’m talking to 2 agents and publishers about writing a book. Sharing my story and giving some advice and talk more about the age of social media and how it plays into privacy issues and the issues of infidelity and deception.

Stay tuned.

Hey Kid, You Don’t Have to Do College!

But Here’s What I’d Like You To Think About

college-alternativesToday is my 41st birthday. I’m sitting here in bed thinking at 5am about what I’m going to do today and what’s going to happen from today until my 42nd birthday. I’ve wrote about outliving my Father and keeping my priorities straight and reconnecting with family. But for some reason (I must have had a dream about it) I woke up today thinking about a college fund for my son, Jakob.

I’ve been thinking about my son lately and what type of person he’ll become when he grows up. What will Jake need from me to be successful in life? I’ve taken him on trips and we’ve seen some great sites. But what are the things I need to plan now for his success when he leaves school. One of the things I debate on and off is college.

Do I push him into college if he doesn’t want to? Do I show him alternatives to college that I’ve experienced or witnessed in my life?

When I left high school I had a ton of ideas what I wanted to do in life but no clue on how to get started other than college.

Teachers, parents and adults say:

“You HAVE to go to college or you won’t make ANYTHING of yourself”

I just thought they knew best and I did that. I changed majors 2 times and went to 2 different colleges. I started off civil engineering and ended up in computer science.

6 years after graduating from Dracut High School I found myself with 5 and half years of college classes and no degree. Now I’m changing careers paths once again and leaving school. Someone offered my a promotion from part-time dispatcher to full-time and $40k/year salary. JACKPOT! Where was the article in 1998 on Where do find a $100k job?

So that’s what I did. I never did go back to school after that and get a degree but it did teach me some lessons that I thought were very valuable. After 9 months of living on my own on Cape Cod in the winter I realized I could be stuck here doing this same decent job for the rest of my life or I could be doing something that I liked. I gave my notice, packed up my stuff just before the fun summer beach months start and moved back home to Lowell. Dummy!

So then I’m sitting at my Mom’s house at 22 years old trying to figure out what I’m going to do. What am I good at? What do I like to do? After thinking and applying for a bunch of jobs I saw a help desk position in the paper and applied to it. With a shiny new shirt and tie I went to the interview and got the job. I’m Canon computer’s new level 1 help desk representative. Great!?

alternatives-to-collegeMany people (including parents) automatically assume that attending college and graduating are the only ways to find a high paying job. Here’s a little known fact they don’t know about: high school graduates can continue to learn, earn money and work in a career field they love. Just like going to college, finding a high paying job depends on the love of a particular career interest.

For example, you may love acting and playing different fictional characters. Thus, you may decide to become an actor. Acting requires no formal education, just talent. The rest can be taught on the job. Talent is the prerequisite for many things in life.

Here are some career suggestions I thought of and are in no particular order. Remember, they are ideas to motivate you to think about your interest and career goals. Thus, these 12 careers are a short list of options:

  1. Fashion Designer
    Yes, becoming a fashion designer doesn’t require a college education. Yes, some designers do go to college. However, employers require:
    • Creativity
    • Good understanding of the clothing production process
    • Use of computer-aided design (CAD) technology
    • Portfolio (a collection of your designs that show off your fashion designing abilities and styles)
    Those things you can acquire without going to college. The first step is to gaining beginning experience in the fashion design industry either though an internship or working as an assistant designer. Many fashion designers work their way up the career ladder by becoming a chief designer, creative director or starting their own design company.
  2. Politician
    Do you love debating politics? Are you interested in changing the world—or at least your community—for the better? A career as a politician may be in your future. Becoming a politician doesn’t require a college degree. You do have to abide by your community, state or federal guideline requirements. Also, you must have solutions to problems facing the district you’re running in and be a:
    • Good speaker
    • Negotiator
    Many politicians start by volunteering at non-profit organizations. Often, they also volunteer on political campaigns to meet politicians and understand the process.
  3. Police Officer
    If you love criminal justice and catching the bad guys, you may love a career as a police officer or detective. Education requirements typically include a high school diploma. The most important requirement is graduating from the agency’s training academy. After that, you move onto the on-the-job training period. Although police department requirements may vary, you typically must be:
    • 21 years old or older
    • Great mental, personal and physical health
    Regardless of the police department you choose to work for, you’ll definitely catch the bad guys.
  4. Writer
    Becoming a journalist requires a degree. However, you can still become a writer. Whether you want to self-publish an e-book about traveling or ghostwrite articles for a client, you can do it without a degree. One requirement is research and knowing how to write. Many writers who aren’t proficient in grammar choose to higher or even barter with an editor. For example, you would write copy for an editor in exchange for him proofreading your work. How much money you make depends on your assignments and how much you work.
  5. Entrepreneur
    Are you a risk taker? Do you like making the decisions? Do you have the drive and determination to get things done? Are you willing to fail—at least once? This may be your career field. An entrepreneur is someone who, either as a sole proprietor or with a business partner, starts a company. Whether you have a new idea or want to start a franchise, you’re more concerned about the company’s long-term success than immediate profit. If you’re interested, you may want to start attending local meetings offered by business associations. This way you can meet people and learn the entrepreneurship ropes.
  6. Artist
    Becoming an artist incorporates a little entrepreneurship because you’re responsible for not only making your crafts, but selling them too. This career option is diverse because you can work as a painter, illustrator or sculptor. For example, you can make pottery or glassware. You can sell your items online or via a local retailer. The great thing about this job is that you’re doing something you love.
  7. Self-Enrichment Teacher
    As a self-enrichment teacher, you are an instructor who teaches self-improvement or fun classes like music, drawing, knitting or foreign language. Your class doesn’t lead to a certification or degree for your students. Typically, you teach at community centers, schools or religious organizations. There is no formal college training to be a self-enrichment teacher. You need to have an expertise. For instance, you love sewing, you may teach a sewing class.
  8. Jeweler
    A jeweler, sometimes also referred to as precious stone and metal workers, complete a combination of tasks ranging from designing jewelry to repairing and appraising gems. This career doesn’t require a college degree because you learn skills through a combination of apprenticeships and on-the-job training at jewelry manufacturing plants. The apprenticeship usually last about a year.
  9. Photographer
    A Photographer is paid to visually record an event or tell a story. This is different from a photojournalist who has a degree and covers news stories. As a photographer, you’re hired to take pictures at a wedding, photo shoot or portrait in your studio. You can take classes at a vocational school to increase your photographic knowledge. Like a career in fashion design, you need a portfolio of your work to gain clients.
  10. Public Address Announcers
    A public announcer works during entertainment and sporting events. For example, you instruct the audience on when to stand for the National Anthem or announce players as they enter the field of play. For other announcing gigs like radio or television announcer you need a college degree. However, to work as a public address announcer, you only need a high school diploma and on-the-job training. The training generally includes becoming familiar with the announcing equipment.
  11. Blogger
    A blogger is different from a writer. You are writing about your experience. For instance, you can write about your travels or different jobs. Many people have made a career out of blogging whether they are giving the scoop on a celebrity or offering advice about how to complete a task.
  12. Product Promoter/ Demonstrator
    Let’s wrap up with a sales position. Do you love talking to people? Do you love sharing your knowledge about a product like cosmetics, food or computers? Are you interested in traveling? Working as a product promoter, also called a demonstrator, allows you to do all those things. You may travel to a product show or local store and to hand out materials and tell an audience about the product.

To have fun working in a career doesn’t always require a college degree. It does require doing something you love. Remember, a job is something you do for the money. A career is something you do for the love and the money.

Do you have any suggestions of a career path that’s an alternative to going to college?

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How to Improve Learning Using Technology Toys

learning using technology toysThe use of toys in children is to allow them to have fun while they learn and explore things. As they say, play time is the best time for young children to learn and you should never underestimate what toys can do for your child. Toys help children to share, communicate, judge things, explore their surroundings, and others and we have already seen all these things in conventional toys. Now that technology is very popular, promoting learning using technology toys becomes a challenge for parents, care givers and teachers. It’s not as easy to teach as say riding a bike. To help you stimulate learning in children as they use their favorite gadgets, the following are some effective tips to do this:

1. Set the time when they can use they gadgets

Even before, children should be given a time for play. Same is true when using their gadgets. When they use their tablets, laptops, gaming consoles and other technological toys for several hours, they tend to shift from educational games to just playing for the sake of fun. This is especially a concern when you are not controlling the apps installed in their gadgets because they can just shift to other non-worthwhile apps and games as they play for a long time. Make sure to give them specific time of the day when they can play.

2. Allow them to choose their gadgets with your assistance

Without parent’s assistance, children can just pick any toy or any app that they want. This exposes the child to inappropriate games and toys that can include violence and other things that they should not be exposed to. Make sure to assist them in choosing their toys so you ensure that what they get are educational. You can look into Magic cabin for worthwhile and educational toys and games.

3. Choose gadgets with multi-function

Instead of getting a gaming console for instance, you can maximize your money and their learning by getting multi-functional gadgets such as tablets. In this way, they can use it for games, educational apps, communication, music, art and others.

4. Get them educational apps

You can also maximize learning using technology by getting educational apps for them. Focus on apps that can help them in Arithmetic, Reading, Phonics, Science, Art and others. There are hundreds of apps that can offer these learning skills so better check the app store if your kids have tablets or smart phones.

5. Engage in quality time with your kids during play time

While they use their gadgets during play time, it is also encouraged that care givers spend time with children to assist them in learning and discover how kids learn using the gadgets.

Technological toys are now very rampant in the toy market and while they are very appealing for both the children and their parents, it is still preferred that they will be used for learning purposes to maximize the play time of kids. Also, you must get conventional toys for your children aside from their gadgets so they may also experience play in real time with other children

Dr. Rowena is a developmental pediatrician. She also has children of her own. Aside from assisting her patients in their developmental and health concerns, she also provides a list of educational games for toddlers, toys and gadgets that are beneficial based on her own research.

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A Guide to Staying Motivated

Setting goals is completely useless if you don’t stay motivated to achieve them. Sometime in your journey, you might find yourself just not having it in you to chase these dreams and aspirations. You might think it will take too long, that it’s probably not what you want, or that it’s not worth it. When you finally realize what it is that you’ve always wanted, you can’t waste time dilly-dallying on your efforts to work for it! Find ways to keep yourself energized and motivated, and it will do wonders for your strength to reach your dreams and pursue your passions.

Choose something you love

Basically, you should work on achieving something which you are passionate about and that you really think is important. Otherwise, you wouldn’t find any reason to bother with it at all. You will only be wasting your time if you spend it on something you know can’t keep you going. In whatever you do when you work for it, find good reasons for why you have to do it. Whatever you have go power through when in pursuit of it will only reward you with good stuff later on. It wouldn’t be so difficult to overcome obstacles if you are working for the one thing you love.

Keep things fun

Just because you have goals and staying healthy and you’re working at achieving them doesn’t mean you have to go through hell. Some days can be worse than others, but there’s no point in obsessing about the little things that don’t matter. Find an anxiety cure by looking for something fun when dealing with any difficult situation. Make it enjoyable for you and for other people who are helping you out. While not everything can be sunshiny at the thought of keeping things light, it could change the way you think about things by giving you a more positive outlook when going through tough times.

Check your progress

It could surprise you sometimes, so it’s always good to check in on how far along you are since you started working on your passion. You can slowly see how you’ve improved your skills, or how you’ve gotten better at dealing with situations. See how you’ve matured in the course of the time you spent working for something you are passionate about. This will propel you forward and inspire you to just keep getting better at what you do. There is nothing like knowing that you’ve come a long way and that you only plan on going farther.

Keep the end in mind

You know what they say, “Begin with the end in mind.” Remember this so that you will have the will to power through whatever life throws at you that could hinder you from reaching your goals. Anything you’ve achieved so far will be put to waste if you just decide to abandon ship and leave everything behind. Everything that you have worked hard for since day one will not matter if you choose to just stop doing it. If this is your passion, you shouldn’t just give up on it. Fight and live to conquer another day.

Keeping yourself motivated and energized wouldn’t be much of a problem if you really love what you do and think that you are meant to do it. In most cases, you probably are, so just keep working for it and watch it unfold in front of you. See it grow and revel in the thought of all the heart and hard work you put into it. Only then will you realize that it was worth it.

[box type="note"]About the Author: Ryan Rivera is an anxiety help specialist that started his website as a way to help others cure their anxiety. He can be found at www.calmclinic.com.[/box]

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Headaches From Sunglasses

headache while wearing sunglassesI get headaches when I wear sunglasses. Most people suffer from headaches at one time or another, and many people in North American suffer from migraines, ranging in frequency from several times a year to once a month or more often. In many cases, a migraine or severe headache forces the sufferer into isolation until it goes away, damaging their ability to work, socialize, and generally live life to its fullest.

What most people don’t already realize is that many migraines and headaches can be prevented through the regular use of a good set of sunglasses! Regardless of whether it’s the summer solstice or the frigid depths of winter, a high quality pair of sunglasses is a very useful preventive health item as well as a fashion accessory. Since bright light can trigger migraines, headaches, and contribute to tension and other disorders, a good pair of sunglasses can significantly improve your quality of life, as well as preventing serious eye degeneration that can eventually lead to blindness. Continue reading

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The Ups and Downs of Dealing with SSD Hard Drives

SSD versus HDD is an ongoing debate in most technical environments today. Should you jump on the bandwagon of new technology or stick with your old, reliable HDD? To understand the debate, it’s important to know what an SSD drive is and how it differs from the HDD drive.

Since 1956, we’ve depended on HDD technology to store information on our computers. Over time, these drives have become immensely smaller, capable of storing far greater amounts of data affordably and are generally pretty reliable. Research and development of current SSDs began in the 1970s, but experienced a number of false starts and setbacks. SSDs as we now know them were only born in the 1990s, but didn’t reach any real market potential until well into the 2000s. Now, they’re the new girl in school and everybody’s talking about her.

What Is an SSD Drive?

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SSD stands for Solid State Drive. It is different from HDD (Hard Disk Drive) in that SSDs have no moving parts. HDDs are constantly spinning, which often leads to mechanical failures that SSD drives are all but immune from. Also called flash drives, they operate exactly like our portable USB or thumb drives. An Solid State Hard Drive is like having a much bigger and more sophisticated flash drive.

Sometimes, SSDs are referred to as “electronic drives,” but this isn’t an entirely accurate term. Most SSDs use NAND based flash memory. This means that when you remove or power off the device, it still remembers what’s on it. Techies call this non-volatile memory, and this quality is obviously essential for any storage device.

SSDs are most practical for mobile users. Since HDDs are extremely susceptible to problems like overheating, jarring, extreme cold and even high elevation, many users need a durable, reliable device to withstand the rigors of outdoor use, use during battle conditions, use on public transportation systems and other less than pristine operating conditions.

About 90 percent of SSDs are marketed to individuals (as opposed to large organizations) for PCs, laptops and tablets. But the big guys account for 50 percent of manufacturer profits because large corporations demand larger, more powerful discs. The overall market for SSDs is growing about 70 percent per year.

Advantages of Using SSD Drives

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Since there are no moving parts, there are a number of advantages inherent in using SSD drives, including:

  • Quiet operation
  • Faster start-up
  • Much faster than an HDD
  • Lower power consumption
  • Produces less heat
  • Almost never experience mechanical failure

No spinning drive means the machine can operate silently, except for very high-end SSD drives, which require cooling fans. Since the device doesn’t have to start spinning to operate, it boots up more quickly. No moving parts also means it uses less power, making it attractive to green thinkers. Since the drive produces less heat, it eliminates many of the cooling problems associated with using lots of high-powered machines. Usually, the moving parts of HDD drives cause failures, and SSD technology almost eliminates this possibility.

In addition to these benefits, SSDs are almost immune to damage by vibration, sudden shock, extreme temperatures and high altitude. This durability makes SSDs particularly attractive to the military, rescue workers, field researchers and others who need reliable memory in extreme conditions.

When SSDs fail, it usually happens during the writing process instead of the reading process when most HDD drives fail. Because of this, it’s often easier to retrieve information lost during an SSD failure than when an HDD fails. SSDs also run about 100 times faster than HDD drives and are lighter and smaller. Sounds like the perfect solution – so why isn’t everyone convinced to run out and buy an SSD drive already?

Disadvantages of Using SSD Drives

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SSDs still have a low endurance cycle when compared to standard HDD drives. This means you can’t use them indefinitely without failure. They have a shorter data retention, so the performance of SSDs deteriorates over time. Since the drives fill up faster, it’s necessary to do more maintenance work, such as frequent disc cleanups and removing duplicate files. Lower storage space also means you need more drives to store the same amount of data, and in some working environments space is a big issue.

But the most prohibitive aspects of SSDs are their lower capacity and higher cost. These drives store less information, yet cost considerably more than their HDD counterparts. Cost alone causes most buyers to pause, since the cost of a laptop or notebook with an SSD drive is about $200 more than an HDD machine. In some cases, this almost doubles the cost of the device.

Choosing Between HDD and SSD Drives

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It’s important to remember SSD drives are still in a relatively new stage of development. As with all technology, these drives become better and more affordable over time. For applications in extreme conditions, the cost may be worth the ability to operate the machine in temperatures as low as 41 F and as high as 131 F. SSD drives are also a clear choice for machines needing to operate reliably in bumpy vehicles and other rough environments.

As development of SSDs improves and cost goes down, more consumers will opt for the quiet, quick operation of the SSD drive. Until these advancements become reality, users need to weigh the benefits versus the costs. Do you need a computer to withstand impacts, endure brutal temperatures, operate in silence or boot up quickly? Then the cost of your SSD drive may be worth it. For most average users, HDD remains a reliable, affordable way to store and retrieve data.

While some believe SSD drives will eventually replace HDD drives completely, most experts don’t think so. Manufacturers continue to improve their HDD development right along side their SSD efforts, because there remains practical needs for both devices. For the forseeable future, users will have a choice of both drive types when it comes to storing our estimated world accumulation of an astounding 1,800 exabytes (a “billion billion” or quintillion bytes, in other words, ten to the eighteenth power) of data.

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How to Submit and Market Your eBook on Amazon Kindle

How to market your ebookChanges in the publishing world have made it possible to publish and sell your own eBook for free on Amazon’s website. Publishing industry professionals who were once the gatekeepers and kept many good books from being published are no longer a barrier to publishing.

Even a guy like me can write a how to ebook and publish it on Amazon Kindle. Anyone can now publish an eBook overnight on Amazon’s Kindle platform. There are no more legitimate excuses for writers to use.

Why Publish an eBook on Kindle

Since there are fewer authors publishing books on Kindle than in the print world, there is less competition. This factor gives Kindle authors a better chance to show up in book search results. So let’s talk about how to submit and market your eBook on Amazon Kindle.

Kindle is very user friendly and makes it simple to assign relevant keyword tags.

Getting Your Book Ready to Publish on Amazon

There is no reason to be intimidated over formatting a book for Amazon. Using Microsoft Word is a good place to start with a manuscript.

You need to save your book in DOC format. Adding italics and boldface using Word’s toolbar will translate into Kindle when you convert it onto Amazon.

You need to also use indentation and page breaks on Word when preparing the final draft that will be published. These standard publishing tools are accepted by Amazon and will make your eBook look professional. Images can also be added to an eBook using JPEG. Spellcheck and grammar tools on Word are also recommended to catch typos and other grammatical problems that the editor may have missed.

When I wrote my ebook on how to clean your bed’s mattress, the writing part was easy. It was the formatting and submitting it to Amazon that made it a bit challenging.

Certain pages that fall in the front of many books can also be added. At the very least, a title page should be added. A copyright page is usually the next page following the title page. Page breaks should be placed after each of these pages to be sure they format properly. When appropriate, a dedication page, a preface and a prologue can be added to the front of the book.

When you are finished formatting the book and like the visual look, it is time to upload the file to KDP. It is as easy as clicking save and publish to send your book to Amazon. The book will be instantly published. In about 48 to 72 hours the detail page should be completed.

Setting the Price

Prices for eBooks are much lower than prices for print books. Pricing a book correctly is critical for achieving success. Fiction eBooks written by indie authors are reported to sell best at a price point of about $2.99.

The good news about pricing is that you can test it to see how the price impacts the number of purchases.

Marketing Your Kindle eBook

Compelling sales copy is critical for selling any book. A great cover and good title are also very important for marketing success. In addition to these three key elements. identifying and using the best keywords will also dramatically impact the number of prospective customers you will attract.

It is a good idea to experiment with keywords, pricing and sales copy. Fortunately, the Kindle platform is conducive to making changes easily. Like so many aspects of marketing, using a trial and error formula to test these important variables for success is a good way to establish a winning formula that delivers desired results.

It is important to remind prospective customers that they do not have to own a Kindle to access your eBook. Making customers aware of this fact can increase sales, since many people still do not own Kindle readers yet.

Letting interested customers know that there is a free compatible reading app that can be downloaded that is compatible with a Mac, iPad, Blackberry, PC, or iPhone will definitely sell additional books. The cheaper price of digital products definitely makes them more attractive and sought after, even for readers who have still not invested in a Kindle.

It is imperative that your physical book in print be linked on Amazon to the Kindle eBook. Reviews posted for your print book version should also show up on the Kindle eBook page. Conversely, the sales page for the print book needs to be clear that there is an available Kindle version. If the links don’t show up within two weeks or so after initial publication, then it is important to contact support at Kindle to get help.

Commissions and Affiliate Status

One of the most attractive aspects of selling eBooks is the percentage paid to writers. Writers can earn as much as 70 percent of the price. Many writers report that they earn more commission selling eBooks for $2.99 than they did previously selling hardback books via traditional bookstore marketing efforts.

One way to make a little additional cash on each book sold is to join the Affiliate program for Amazon. This allows you to promote other Amazon products as well as your own. There are online marketing professionals that never sell their own products but that earn a living as an affiliate marketing company selling the products of others.

Deciding on What to Write to Make Money

Writers of both fiction and non-fiction are earning money writing eBooks. One way to determine the best subject matter or types of books to write is to study the books that are making the Kindle best seller list. For non-fiction books, it is important to pick a niche market that has a lot of demand. Providing answers to help people solve painful problems is a key component of success for informational books.

In the fiction market, books that you can brand as part of a series work well.

What’s your book going to be about?

Overcome your fear of public speaking with ANY audience

Hints on How to Lose the Fear of Public Speaking

Overcome your fear of public speaking with ANY audiencePublic speaking is a gift when it’s done correctly but you may need a few tips to achieve it.

Why are people so afraid to get up in front of an audience and give a speech?

Basically, people are afraid of being humiliated in front of others. Some may have negative experiences in the past, such as having been laughed at by the other kids in school when in front of the class. But, for most people, it’s the generalized fear that they are going to get up on stage and tank; that people won’t like them.

Now, many of the above are quite normal reactions. In fact, some experts say a mild level of anxiety is good before you give a speech as it gives you a burst of energy, resulting in a more dynamic presentation. But, if the fear of public speaking is such that it is keeping you from advancing in your career, or keeping you away from certain social situations, then it’s time for you to act.

The fear of public speaking can manifest itself in many ways:

  1. You get “butterflies” in your stomach.
  2. Your palms sweat.
  3. Your hands shake.
  4. Your knees also shake and you feel as if your legs are about to collapse.
  5. Your heart beats much faster than normal.
  6. You experience a “fainting” feeling.
  7. You have panicky thoughts.

Practice, Practice, Practice

Most people don’t want to hear this, but the best way to conquer a fear of public speaking is practice, practice, practice. Facing any fear head on allows us to control it, rather than let it control us. Our over-reactions to our fears is really our brains trying to protect us from what it perceives as a threatening situation. Feeling faint is a good way to keep us off a stage, saving us from
the threat of humiliation. But, the more we experience the “threatening” situation without the harm (humiliation), the more we’re able to extinguish that fear.

A good way to begin feeling comfortable presenting publicly is to start small. Start sharing stories with friends and co-workers. This could be something you read about in the news, or something you did over the weekend. The point is to practice speaking in front of others, and feeling successful at it.

If you have no problem speaking socially in front of friends, but shake at the thought of getting behind a podium and speaking in front of strangers, then practicing behind a podium is what you must do. Lucky for you there exists speaking clubs such as Toastmaster’s International, which meet weekly in cities all over the world. For a nominal fee, you can join a club in your area and practice speaking in public, as well as hearing speeches on a weekly basis. You will also receive feedback on your weaknesses as well as your strengths. You’ll probably be surprised to find out that you’re better than you thought you were.

But I’m too Afraid to Practice Public Speaking

For those whose anxiety level or social phobia is so great that they’re having extreme trouble getting into the practice phase, there is some hope for you as well. Psychotherapy as well as hypnosis has been used by people who need to learn ways of coping with fear of public speaking. With hypnosis, you can help desensitize yourself to your fear, as well as visualize success speaking before an audience. Hypnosis is also helpful with managing anxiety.

For extreme anxiety, there are also medications such as beta blockers which can provide some temporary relief; enough to possibly help you gain a positive speaking experience. If that don’t help imagien yourself play the scary maze game or what the Brady Bunch taught us about imagining your audience.

The point is, you don’t have to allow your fear to rule your life. For some, the ability to give a speech in public can mean closing a sale, getting a promotion, or charting a new career path. It would be a shame, with all the resources now available to help you conquer your fear, to allow that fear to win.

Backup & Download Your Facebook Photos and Updates

how to backup your facebook dataAre you an ardent Facebook user? If so, have you ever thought about Facebook backup? You might be wondering what purpose an off-line copy of your Facebook account serves. The truth is that it may prove to be useful to download your Facebook information in certain situations.

I was concerned with backing up some of the mobile photos I’ve put on my Facebook page within the last year so I was searching for a way to backup and download my Facebook information, photos and wall/status updates. Facebook recently came out with an option to do this. Just in time Zuck!

What if you couldn’t find the information you put on Facebook anywhere else? Let’s say, for example, you took some important pictures on your phone and uploaded it to Facebook. What would you do once you lost your phone? Luckily, you can download Facebook pictures that you uploaded from your phone using the outlined method. Downloading your Facebook information is also useful because it allows you to transfer the information you have onto other platforms, if necessary.

How to Initiate a Facebook Backup

  1. First, open your browser and log on to www.Facebook.com. In the proper fields, enter in the email address that you use to log in with and your password to access your account.
  2. After logging in, you should see three tabs on the top right of the screen that read “home”, “profile”, and “account”. After clicking on the “account” tab, a drop-down menu should appear; select the “account settings” tab on the drop-down menu.
  3. You should now see a page with a list of possible actions you can take, such as changing your email, username, password, etc. Find the heading that reads “Download Your Information” and click the tab that says “learn more”.
  4. On the page that opens you will see a download button. After reading the directions on that page, click the download button.

Your Facebook information will come in the form of a zip file. Keep in mind that Facebook needs time to gather all the information it has that pertains to your account and that you’ll have to wait a little while before you begin the actual download. You will receive an email when you are ready to download your Facebook information . Also keep in mind that before the actual download, Facebook will ask you to verify your account information for security reasons.

If you’re wondering what’s included when you backup Facebook this way the answer is “just about anything you put up”. You can download profile content like your contact information, interests, and associated groups. You can download wall posts and other related content that you and your friends share on your profile. Photos and videos that are uploaded to your account are also downloadable. Friend lists, notes that you have created, sent and received messages, and even events that you have RSVP’d are also among some of the things you can download as well.

It is important to note that through this particular method of Facebook backup it is not possible to pick and choose which information you would like to download; it’s an all-or-nothing deal. If you want to download Facebook pictures , video, and information in one shot, this is probably the best way.

There is one last thing to keep in mind when backing up your Facebook account. Your downloaded file will contain sensitive information. Facebook strongly urges you to keep your data secure and take extra precautions when storing or transferring this data onto other services.
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How Thanksgiving Became the National Day of Mourning for the Wampanoag Native Americans

When I was young, it was ok for people to celebrate the myth of Thanksgiving as it had been told to us for hundreds of years. The Pilgrims landed on Plymouth rock and were met by some very friendly “Indians”.

These Indians quickly became friends with the Pilgrims. In a way of celebrating both the Pilgrim/Indian friendship and the wonderful harvest that the Pilgrims and the Indians worked together to cultivate…Thanksgiving was born.

Now as time goes on and the country becomes more and more politically correct we can see that the story behind Thanksgiving was based mostly on mythology and it has gone through great changes. This is, in part, due to the Wampanog tribe of Native Americans but more specifically a man named Frank B. James, the one time leader of the Wampanog tribe.

How did the Wampanog tribe of Native Americans turn Thanksgiving into the National Day of Mourning?

The Commonwealth of Massachusetts had decided back in 1970 to invite the then leader of the Wampanoag Native American tribe to Plymouth Mass, the site of the “first Thanksgiving”, and give a speech about the meaning Thanksgiving. The speech was set to take place on the top of Cole’s Hill.

Once the Commonwealth of Massachusetts realized that the Wampanoag tribe leader, Frank B. James, intended to speak out about the misconceptions of Thanksgiving and the way that the Native Americans were actually treated, they decided to un-invite him as a public speaker. This, however, did not stop the Wampanog Native American tribe, it’s leader Frank B. James, or it’s supporters.

Convening at Cole’s Hill in Plymouth Mass, The Wampanoag Native American tribe declared that the Fourth Sunday of November would no longer be known to Native Americans as Thanksgiving. They would now use this day as a way of protesting the Thanksgiving myth of how Native Americans were actually treated…The National Day Of Mourning was born.

National Day Of Mourning Will Continue

Since that first gathering, Native Americans and their supporters have gathered on Cole’s Hill in Plymouth Massachusetts on the Fourth Thursday of November at twelve noon to commemorate The National Day of Mourning. There has been a plaque placed on Cole’s Hill at the yearly meeting site which reads:

“Since 1970, Native Americans have gathered at noon on Cole’s Hill in Plymouth to commemorate a National Day of Mourning on the US Thanksgiving holiday. Many Native Americans do not celebrate the arrival of the Pilgrims and other European settlers. To them, Thanksgiving Day is a reminder of the genocide of millions of their people, the theft of their lands, and the relentless assault on their culture. Participants in a National Day of Mourning honor Native ancestors and the struggles of Native peoples to survive today. It is a day of remembrance and spiritual connection as well as a protest of the racism and oppression which Native Americans continue to experience.”

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I can certainly understand why Native Americans would take issue with their whole country celebrating the way that their people were murdered and their land overtaken. See I don’t know exactly what happened because A) I wasn’t there B) my “perfect world” history books told a story of two different types of people coming together to give thanks for their newfound relationship with each other.

The Wampanoag Native American tribe has been quoted as saying they will continue with their National Day of Mourning ceremonies and rallies until American history books reflect what truly happened to their people once the Pilgrims came to this country. While I think we have made definite steps in that direction…I can’t see that happening for a long, long time, if ever.

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How to Remove Stains and Odors in a Mattress

Once the liquid has been removed, you are ready to work on any resulting stain. There are several cleaners available on the market, but most of them are not appropriate for use on the foam and synthetic fibers found in mattresses.

A good quality mattress cleaner is suggested. I’ve used successfully Resolve Multi-fabric Cleaner and Oxiclean Versatile Stain Remover. Remember it’s the foam and lather that you’ll be using so you don’t need much.

It’s a good idea to have it on hand before you actually need it. However, here you can also use a basic, mild detergent like dish washing soap.

Before you begin working, you should assemble a few supplies. You will need a bucket for the cleaning mix, mild detergent, water, sponge and a roll of paper towels. Mix the water with a few drops of detergent and continue mixing until you start creating suds. Using the sponge, apply only the suds to the mattress and work them into the stain.

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Paper towels will absorb the remaining moisture along with the stain. A sponge rinsed with clean water and wrung out can be used to give the mattress cover a quick rinse. Again, use the paper towels to remove any remaining moisture.

This method is useful for sweat stains, urine stains, dirt and even blood.

Stubborn Mattress Stains

There will be times when the stains are resistant and just won’t move. Blood, in particular, can be difficult to clean from the carpet.

When this happens, get some hydrogen peroxide and mild dish detergent. But DO NOT pour either directly on the mattress stains.

Mix the peroxide and detergent until you get plenty of suds, and then use those suds to work on the stain. Use the suds only, gently scrub them in with the sponge and remove all residual liquid with paper towels.

Removing Odors

There will be times when you are dealing with a lingering odor, particularly if a family member or pet has urinated on the bed. Removing odors can take some time and regular effort, but it is worth it. I checked in with cleaning expert, Melissa Maker and she agree with me too. It’s not hard but it has to be done. Let’s get busy.

Once the liquid is removed and the stain has been treated, you are ready to start working on the odor.

1. Sprinkle the affected area with baking powder. Leave the powder in place and the bed unmade until shortly before bedtime.

2. Using the upholstery attachment on the vacuum, remove all the baking powder right before you go to bed. Sprinkle fresh powder over the stain, cover with a towel and then make the bed.

3. In the morning, do not make the bed and seal in the odor. Remove the sheets and take the towel off the bed. The towel will probably reek, but the mattress should smell a little better.

4. Vacuum the remaining baking powder from the mattress. Sprinkle more baking powder on the mattress and allow it to air out over the course of the day.

5. Repeat the process with the towel when you are ready to go to bed.

6. Continue repeating the entire process until the odor has vanished. It will probably take a few days, but the odor will gradually air out or wick into the towels overnight.

7. Wash all the towels with detergent and a cup of white vinegar. The vinegar will remove the odor from your towel. Check sheets daily to see if they should be laundered to help remove the odor.

Let me know if you tried this or you have your own secret. It’s always worked for me.

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Ask Mr Mom – How To Clean Urine From a Wet Bed

Regardless of the type of mattress you are dealing with, you should never use liquid to clean a mattress bed. Water based cleaners will seep into the foam and batting. Difficult to remove, the remaining moisture may result in mold and mildew.

Regardless of whether you are dealing with cat urine, blood or sweat, you should not use liquid to clean the mattress. However, there are steps you can take to clean the mattress when something should happen to it.

Removing Liquids from the Bed

It doesn’t matter if your young child peed the bed or your over intoxicated husband :) had an accident and peed the bed, if your cat decided to spray it, or if you spilled a glass of wine on the mattress. Although it sounds like you also need a good bed wetting solution too.

Clean a wet bed

The first step is to remove as much of the offending liquid as possible. Here are the steps you should follow to start on this task.

Remove bedding – Start by stripping the bed completely. Get the sheets washing and remove any mattress covers you may have. With the bed stripped, you can start to see the extent of the damage. If it’s urine in the mattress, you can see the extent of the stains with a black light if it has already started to dry. If not it should be visible without one.

Waterbeds and airbeds – If you have one of these beds, then you can start by unzipping the top cover and pulling it back. The liquid can easily be cleaned off the vinyl base mattress with some warm, soapy water. Have a towel on hand to quickly dry the material, and do not allow the liquid to get near the foam that is around the sides. The cover can be cleaned separately following the directions for innerspring and foam mattresses. Be sure to remove and wash down any liquid that gets in and around the vinyl base because if that dries it’s going to smell and could grow mold.

Mold = bad!

Futons, spring mattresses, foam and waterbed covers – The liquid should be blotted out completely. Paper towels are highly absorbent and can be used to start pulling the liquid out. If necessary, put a heavy layer of towels on the stain, cover them with a heavy stack of books or lay on it yourself and give it a few hours to start wicking the moisture up. 

A shop vacuum or steam cleaner is also handy when things like this happen. Use the suction only to remove as much liquid as possible. When using attachments, do not use any that have spinning brushes to avoid spreading the stain. Suck it up or blot it up as quick as possible. Trust me if you use those vacuums with the rotating bristles you’re only going to spread moisture where it doesn’t belong.

Now if you have properly cleaned the liquid or urine from the mattress and it’s dry now you want to see if it completely removed, right? You don’t want to be sleeping in bed wondering if you removed all that urine and smell.

So how do you check to be sure you cleaned all the urine?

Got a black light around?

If you don’t have access to one you can purchase a cheap one like the one I got on Amazon here.

Urine has enzymes in it that give off a distinct glow when they have a black light shining on them. UV lights need to be used at night in order to see cat and dog urine odor spots. When using the black light, urine stains will typically show up as a dull yellow to yellow-green color before being treated.

If necessary, masking tape can be used to outline odor areas for treatment in the daylight.

Perfect for you so now you can see if there’s anything glowing on there. Get out those disco lights you got in the basement or run down to the local party store and pickup a flashlight or black light bulb.

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What Type of Mattress Do You Have?

Your mattress is an investment, so you want to keep it in great shape for as long as possible.

It seems like a mattress should always be clean, but there are several stains that can cause discolorations, encourage germs and produce unpleasant odors.

So what makes me an expert?

I wanted to write this article to share some of what I’ve learned over 10 years of raising my child, 3 pets and enough spills and mistakes to…well…write an article I guess.

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We’ve had waterbeds when I was small. Then there’s always the good ol spring mattress that worked for years for me until I started getting older and sleeping on my stomach became a problem.

Then I switched to a Tempur-Pedic memory foam mattress a few years ago that I bought at Jordan’s Furniture in Nashua NH and I’ll never look back to anything else. My back feels great. I sleep all night and it’s as cool as a spring mattress with a 20 year guarantee not to sag.

Here is everything you need to know about your type of mattress

Spring – Innerspring mattresses have been the top choice for decades. Comfortable and durable, this traditional mattress features a central support system of tempered steel coils. Layered with rich upholstery and thick padding, these mattresses are available in firm or soft designs and may feature a pillow top.

Latex Foam – Solid foam mattresses may feature one solid core or several layers laminated together.

Memory Foam – Technology is always improving classic favorites. The creation of visco-elastic foams allows you to choose foam mattresses that are firmer, offer greater support and superior performance over the more affordable latex foam.

Airbeds – Airbeds aren’t just for camping anymore. They are moving into the bedroom on a permanent basis. The core of the bed is a high quality vinyl airbed, but it is surrounded and protected with foam, batting and comfortable upholstery. They look like regular beds, but the adjustability of them makes them a great choice for couples who cannot agree on a mattress.

Waterbeds – Designed to look like traditional beds, these mattresses are filled with water and then covered with extra layers of upholstery for comfort and warmth.

Futons – If you need the bed to double as a couch during the day, then a futon may be your best choice. Flexible mattresses feature a combination of synthetic fibers, foam and cotton that can support sitting or sleeping.

Leave a comment below and tell me what bed do you have and is it working for you?

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Our Summer Vacation in Paris and Montmartre France

Some photos of Lori and I when we visited Paris France this past summer. The city is beautiful and exactly what you’d expect from an old European city. And surprisingly it’s very modern with great transportation and ways to move people in and around the city. Our favorite part was Montmartre. Montmartre is a hill in the north of Paris, France.

Montmartre is primarily known for the white-domed Basilica of the Sacré Coeur on its summit and as a nightclub district. The other, older, church on the hill is Saint Pierre de Montmartre, which claims to be the location at which the Jesuit order of priests was founded.

Many artists had studios or worked around the community of Montmartre such as Claude Monet, Pablo Picasso and Vincent van Gogh.

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Be an Excellent Leader. Learn How to Build Leadership Messaging

Exceptional leaders build the content of their messaging to present it in a more compelling manner.

They recognize that in order to Build Leadership Messaging a follower comprehension of their direction develops in stages. Build your message with information that moves from the simple and familiar to the more complex and less familiar.

For example, saying ‘‘We need to improve our website to make it more user-friendly’’ defines a leader’s direction in simple and familiar terms. The leader would then go into a more complex description of how and why this improvement is possible and necessary and would identify less familiar components, such as a new software package and how to use it, that are vital for achieving the end result the leader wants.

leadership messagingThink through the content of your leadership direction. Identify the most simple and familiar words and phrases that describe the purpose or bottom-line outcome of your course of action. Present evidence and examples to flesh out the more complex and less familiar territory you want people to accept. Build from simple and familiar to establish points of agreement. Recall that willing followers must be committed, not simply convinced.

Agreement points give followers time to warm up to your viewpoint. Simple-familiar to complex-unfamiliar also works because it explains how people learn. That is, comprehension comes by building on what people already know and accept. Build your message by repeating key refrains. Recall how the repetition of ‘‘I have a dream,’’ in Martin Luther King’s famous March on Washington speech, catalyzed the crowd.

Remember Ronald Reagan’s effective use of ‘‘There you go again’’ when debating Jimmy Carter in the 1980 presidential race. Jesse Jackson used the word ‘‘rocks’’ each time he offered another statistic about how many people did not vote in the 1980 election.

Develop a number of phrases and sentences to use as answers to questions such as: What is special about my direction? What do people get as a result of following my lead? Repeat the phrases you develop to reinforce your message. Use contrasting phrases to build your message.

John F. Kennedy brilliantly applied this method with statements such as, ‘‘We shall never negotiate out of fear, and we shall never fear to negotiate.’’ Franklin Roosevelt’s ‘‘We have nothing to fear but fear itself’’ also demonstrates this skill. Consider the enhanced impact of the statement, ‘‘We need to improve our website to make it more user-friendly,’’ when it becomes ‘‘Webfriendly sites make friendly web customers.’’

Use a timeline to build your message.

Consider John F. Kennedy’s speech at the BerlinWall in 1963. He drew a timeline from the past to the present and into the future. He told the crowd that in the days of the Roman Empire, the ‘‘proudest boast’’ one could make was to be from Rome. He then told them how they, the citizens of Berlin, could proudly today stand as the pioneers in the fight against communism. In the future, he argued, history would look back on those in the audience as the defenders of freedom who outlasted Communist oppression.

Create a bridge of personal connection between yourself and followers. Kennedy used this technique in Berlin also. He said, ‘‘All free men, wherever they may live, are citizens of Berlin.

So as a free man, I take pride in the words, ‘Ich bin ein Berliner.’ ’’ Kennedy conveyed that he was a man of Berlin, just like them. Recognize that the order in which people are given information determines how they think. Frank Luntz, a Republican pollster, first uncovered this fact while working for Ross Perot’s 1992 presidential campaign.

Luntz conducted a Detroit focus group test of three Perot television ads. Perot was unstoppably popular at that time; however, the focus group members indicated they did not like him. Luntz learned this by accident. He intended to show ads of a Perot biography, a Perot speech, and testimonials from other people about Perot. He inadvertently ran the ads in the reverse order: testimonials, speech, biography.

The focus group saw Perot’s opinions as extreme when his ideas were not presented with the biography first, which outlined his impressive rags-to-riches life story. Luntz’s findings8 indicate that if your message produces a strong opinion, no subsequent information will get people to change their minds.

Build your message to ensure you first stake out the key factor you want to resonate in the followers’ minds. You can also build your message by using the fact that people remember the beginning and the end of a message. The middle gets muddled for most people. Build your message with several beginnings and endings. Chunk your message into parts. Start and end each part in a definitive manner.

Phrases such as ‘‘Let me make another important point’’ signal to the listener that something new is coming.

Conclude by saying, ‘‘This is an important issue.’’ The best leaders also build their message with emotion. They pull emotional levers that influence followers. They know people need more than the simple logic. Your course of action may meet important business needs such as increased profits, improved service, or reduced turnover, but you need to add the emotional hook to influence others. Instead of only putting more profits in front of followers, present your idea by adding, ‘‘We will be the company Wall Street cries to own.’’

In addition to stating that your direction improves customer service, add, ‘‘We are going to serve people in ways that cause them to love us!’’ Present the ‘‘feeling’’ your direction provides. Add the element of intense passion. Demonstrate a level of oratory excellence and inspired rhetoric to take your message far above the nonspecific, bland, and sometimes unintelligible comments given by many about their vision or where they stand on certain issues.

Address key emotional forces that speak to how people want to be treated at work. People want to feel that they are in on things and fully appreciated for their work participation and results, and they like sympathy for personal problems. These factors represent ‘‘soft’’ incentives that influence action.

Demonstrate how following your lead will meet these needs. Translate your direction into an emotional appeal that strikes that inner chord followers frequently seek. Vary your message between feelings and the cold facts. ‘‘This course of action will reduce 99.99 percent of accidents’’ makes a solid case.

Consider the additional genuine emotion reflected in the statement, ‘‘We will all sleep much better at night knowing we work in a safe environment.’’ Facts provide information that people logically analyze before they follow. Emotion provides the internal interpretation people use to get comfortable with a course of action.

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How to Build Leadership Influence Skills

The capacity to gain willing followers at any moment in time often depends on Leadership Influence Skills. Followers will attach to those who have an established base of credibility and power.

In 2000, Jeffrey Immlet landed the CEO position at General Electric because of his success as head of GE Medical Systems. In contrast, Jill Barad, the feisty former CEO of Mattel Inc., lost the support of many by making ambitious promises for growth and then failing to deliver. Followers commit to those already close to them and with whom they have an established alliance.

Recall the Leadership Influence Skill comment by Rudy, one of the summer 2000 participants in the television show Survivor, during the final vote. He supported Richard “because we had an alliance, and I am going to honor it.”

Building Leadership SkillsFollowers also offer their support to those who have supported them. Groups of voters, such as a union, commit in blocks to candidates who have demonstrated concern for their particular needs. Exceptional leadership influencers build their commitment base with every action they take.

Followers observe the leader’s model and use it to gauge their return commitment of support. The head of a large hospital spent several hours each week walking through the hallways, talking to staff, and meeting patients.

He learned each of the 1,400 staff members’ names and would give them a personal hello when he saw them. He would take the time to sit with nurses and support service personnel to encourage them to work together more effectively.

The hospital president did not have to ask twice when he called on hospital personnel to dedicate themselves to improve customer relations or improve processes that affected patient care. Those who skillfully establish a firm base of commitment are perceived as natural born leaders.

  • Create the conditions necessary to gain commitment.
  • Enhance your credibility as a leader.
  • Position yourself to have more influence.
  • Maximize your flexibility and responsiveness to followers.
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Looking for a Lowell MA Photographer?

Hello, I’m Ken Savage and I’m a Lowell Massachusetts photographer.

We all have mobile phones and we all take photos daily of the sky, a child walking a dog or even a clown on the street. But it’s a gift to capture someone in great lighting where you look at an image and say “WOW.”

That’s what I strive to shoot. I use everything I can to capture something that I would be proud to display in my home as well as a local business.

So what else am I about? I’m a Dad to a 9 year old boy. We love hockey and loud music. Jake and I ride our mountain bikes as much as we can in this New England climate and always try to come home muddy and scarred. We’re guys. We both appreciate an awesome sunset and can sit for hours watching people or listening to frogs croak at night.

Fill out the contact form and let’s talk about planning a photo shoot for you.

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