Comments on: The Hardest Part of Holding On Is Letting Go

By: angel12

angel12 — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 23:02:40 +0000

I just had a big fight w/ my husband, it’s so weird. Everything was going great then one day he woke in a bad mood, we argued back and forth then it got to abuse. he said he wanted time apart from me. He said he tired of being home with the kids when i go to school at night, he put me down. We haven’t fought this way in a yr, but this time was different, i’m thinking of letting him go. Maybe we have just grown apart. I look back and don’t understand why we stay together, i really thought we were done with these type of arguements, but then i look at our 3 boys and think I got to make this work for them. what do i do?

By: tHeA

tHeA — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 08:16:36 +0000

Letting go is not that easy..You have to be strong enough..It doesn’t mean that you don’t love him anymore but instead you want him to be happy and be free…

By: Leny

Leny — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 19:49:19 +0000

Letting go is not easy but it will make you tough for the next relationship that you will be in, so don’t loose hope, make your life full of LOVE. Everyone deserves it!

By: tarah

tarah — Sat, 24 Jan 2009 00:49:08 +0000

“letting go doesn’t mean I stopped caring…it means I care more than ever.”

By: Tiffany

Tiffany — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 07:00:36 +0000

I was in a relationship with a boy for 4 years. i loved him with my whole heart. he was my bestfriend. we did everything other, then one day out of nowhere, he breaks up with me. I was devestated. I cried for months, i didnt sleep, i didnt eat, i didnt do anything besides cry. letting go isnt easy, but sometimes we just have to do it. Its hard enough to hold onto things, but tryin to hold onto something that isnt there, makes no sense. It took a long time, but i finally realized that love is about making someone happy. I just wanted him to be happy, so i let him go. I let him have his life. Do i miss him, yes every single day. But sometimes you just cant dwell on the past and just live for the future. We had a great 4 years together and ill carry those memories forever, but i think i owe it to myself to make new memories with someone else. There are somethings that you can change in life, but when it comes down to things you cant change, its just better off to leave them alone. letting go isnt something you can just do, it takes TIME. but in time things always get better. You dont forget, you just forgive, and make the best out of the life you have left.

By: DALEDZ

DALEDZ — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 09:01:03 +0000

LETTING GO IS BULLSHIT…..
I LEARNED TO LAUGH, I LEARNED TO CRY,BUT WILL I EVER LEARN TO SAY GOODBYE.?

By: DALEDZ

DALEDZ — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 08:57:48 +0000

he SAID..HE LOVES ME..AND LETTING GO OF ME WOULD ME LIKE GOD TAKING HIS LIFE..I WOULD NOT WANT TO LET GO, BUT HE’S TELLING ME THAT IT IS’NT WORKING,.. ACCORDING TO HIM, HE WAS JUST BEING HONEST AND I MUST NOT FEEL SAD AND HOPELESS..I KNOW THINGS GONNA WORK AND THESE BULLSHIT ARGUEMENTS WILL SLOWLY FADE..HOPE I WOULD NOT AND WOULD NEVER END UP CRYING BECAUSE OF MY ONE TRUE LOVE..IT HURTS.. :[

By: Shelly

Shelly — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 20:52:59 +0000

My boyfriend cheated on me 2 months into our relationship. I’ve stayed with him but I never got over it, now I’m leaving, I’m letting him go. Its the hardest thing I have had to do in my entire life, I dont even know if i will make it through this. I cannot stay with him but being without him is just as bad. I just cannot live with what happened in the past.

By: Alyssa

Alyssa — Wed, 13 Feb 2008 03:03:24 +0000

I am losing the love of my life. We have the kind of love that only exists once in a lifetime. Now he is leaving me. This is the worst pain I have ever felt in my life. We still love each other. What I can’t live with is all of the memories.. the memories that will never fade.. and could never be replaced. If he still loves me.. then why is he doing this? I just need to find a way to let go of the only thing that’s ever brought pure happiness to my life.

By: Janyn

Janyn — Sun, 10 Feb 2008 23:43:12 +0000

Hi oz40. I’m sorry your wife left you. My bf split with me two weeks ago and it’s been hard to let go. I was hanging on to the relationship for a bit, but decided to let him go completely. It hurts. I cried everyday for 2 weeks. And even now I’m bleeding in the inside. But I realize that if he’s the right one for me, he’ll be back. If he doesn’t come back then it was never meant to be.